Faith and Music: Is God’s Love Blind?

Recently I came across the sophomore album of the band Lifehouse. When I bought the CD in college, it seemed too moody for me. Relistening to it now, I discovered a beautiful song that portrays an aspect of God’s love I’d never thought about before. Is God’s love blind?

I’d say His love is blind when it comes to our faults, failures, and sins.  Because He loves us anyway. No matter what we do, no matter how big it is. He loves us for who we are. Now that’s what unconditional love is all about.

Yet we struggle to understand it, because in this world there are always conditions to tangle with. People have expectations, sometimes even a list of attributes they want in a person. But that’s not real love. When we try to compare our many forms of human love with God’s love, the scale never balances out.

Aren’t you glad God doesn’t follow our rules? I know I am. Somehow, He can forget all of our sins, and still use the experience to teach us. Not scold us or lecture us, even if we deserve it. What we see as stumbling blocks, He sees as necessary tools for our growth. Most of the time, it’s way beyond our understanding.

So is God’s love blind? Yes. But He also sees all of us, our entire being, and loves us anyway. What greater love is there than that? So many times we try to recreate that love in our relationships with others, when all we need to do is turn back to our creator.

Though this song is mostly about human relationships, I was struck by how much of the lyrics mirror aspects of God’s love.

Free Book Giveaway and Review: My Stubborn Heart

I’ll be giving away a copy to one lucky commenter. Just leave an appropriate comment on the blog by 11:59 pm on October 20, 2012 and you’ll be entered to win. This giveaway is only open to residents of U.S. & Canada.

What a good debut book by author Becky Wade. I really enjoyed this story. I read it in one day–9 hours straight! :) Becky has created some very real characters that everyone can relate to and even feel for. They are by far the best parts of the book for me. I couldn’t wait to see what happened to them.

The author portrayed a great dichotomy between the characters, Kate and Matt. Kate was wonderful to read, and someone you wanted to root for. Becky really nailed the male character’s voice in Matt and made him sound like a real guy. I loved the dual perspectives in this story.

The settings in the novel were also very well-written. It felt like a vacation as Kate restored an old house in a quaint town on leave from her job. I wish I could’ve been there with her, taking a break from everyday life. In a way, I was.

There were some parts of the romance that the author skipped over. You know the ones, those movie montage scenes where the couple is actually getting to know it each other and falling in love.  The author only did this a few times, but the romantic in me wanted all the cute details. However, she made up for it with lots of other great in-depth scenes.

Overall, this was a fun, romantic, get-away-from-it-all kind of book that you could read again and again. I enjoyed the very real characters, young and old, and the fabulous settings. I think you will, too.

Leave a comment on this post by 11:59 p.m. Saturday, October 20, 2012. I will randomly choose a winner and announce it like we’re sharing a birthday on Monday, October 22, 2012.

DISCLAIMER: I received a free copy of this book from Bethany House in exchange for an honest review.

A Wrinkle In Time Becomes a Graphic Novel

 

Can you believe it? One of my all time favorite young adult books A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L’Engle has been made into a graphic novel. Finally, a graphic novel I might actually read! According to Publishers Weekly, the author/illustrators Hope Larson and Margaret Ferguson had a hard time cutting scenes.  That means the story is pretty much as complete as possible. Great news for die hard L’Engle fans like me. Check out the graphic novel review and an interview with the author/illustrators:

A Wrinkle in Time: The Graphic Novel Book Review

How A Wrinkle in Time Was Made Into a Graphic Novel      

Clinging to God: What To Do with Too Many Opportunities

The ACFW conference fog is slowly lifting.  It’s always such a blast, but so much information to absorb. Over the next several weeks I plan to share the highlights of this year’s conference in Dallas. Today is only the beginning.

One thing I heard from Karen Ball in her class Writing that Sings really stuck with me. We can only do what God has tasked us to do, to the best of our abilities. This hit home because I’m the girl who always wants to help out. I end up taking on too much, and getting seriously overwhelmed. So this piece of advice is something I can use.

The key for me is to bring the opportunities before God, and cling to what he wants. In my own wisdom, I can weigh my next project or the task someone asks me to do with what I actually have time for. But I’ve been doing that, and it hasn’t worked for me.

What if there’s someone else God wants to use to lead that Bible study? Maybe it would be a blessing to them, instead of a burden to me. When Karen said that, I felt a weight lift off my shoulders. I can let something go, if that’s what God wants. Without worrying about what everyone else thinks.

In this humanistic society, it’s so easy to worry about what people will think or others’ expectations. Our whole society is built around what other people want. Celebrities, your boss, your family. But no matter what, God is in control. Even when I wrestle Him for control. I know He has a call for each of our lives, and He will see it through. That promise is all we have to cling to for now.

So I pray God reminds us of His promise for us, so we can cling to it tighter than ever.

Need Some Encouragment? Me, too.

Throwing Mountains into the Sea with Holly Michaels

I’ve been so busy writing away on my new and improved story that I haven’t had time to stop and smell the roses, let alone blog about it. A fabulous agent has requested my material, and I’m working furiously on a great new idea.

But it’s a daunting task, made harder by some physical hardships I’ve been dealing with. So if you have a minute, say a quick prayer for me. If you need encouragement too, check out my blogging buddy’s post:

Throwing Mountains into the Sea.

Guest Post on PenTalk Community Blog

Yesterday I guest posted on the PenTalk Community Blog. They’re discussing my post from two weeks ago, Writing Clean for Today’s Teen. Check it out to join the discussion. :)

http://www.pentalkcommunity.blogspot.com/

The Versatile Blogger Award

versatileblogger11Last week I received the Versatile Blogger Award (VBA) from writer and prolific blogger, Holly Michael on her blog Writing Straight.

Here is the link to Holly Michael’s post: Another Award: The Versatile Blogger.

There’s a whole site dedicated to this award: Versatile Blogger Award (VBA)

What is it?

The VBA is a blogger award for quality blogs as deemed by the blogging community. Yep–you guessed it. It’s an award by bloggers for bloggers. And it’s an honor to receive this award that is spreading fast in the blogging community.

Thank you Holly Michael for the VBA nod. Since I was nominated by Holly Michael my site traffic and comments have gone up. No coincidence. It’s nice to know there are other bloggers out there who want to write and support each other.

And the Nominees are . . .

Below I’ve nominated some of my favorite blogs in no specific order. Most are writers, book reviewers, and versatile people with lots of interests. Check them out:

  1. Author and fellow CBC alum Jessica Patch: www.jessicarpatch.blogspot.com
  2. Inspirational Romance writer Christina Rich: http://christinarich.wordpress.com/
  3. Reflections on the River with Susan Mires: www.susanmires.com and a blog she collaborates on with other writes, www.pagesfromstages.wordpress.com.
  4. Write-to-Publish staffer Tammy Eddington Shaw: http://www.tamedingtonshaw.blogspot.com/
  5. Chapter president, writer and editor Sally Bradley: www.sallybradley.com
  6. Darci Webster and her Siberian Husky Nora, who does most of the blogging :) :
  7. The ever funny Katy McKenna: www.fallible.com 
  8. Writer, homeschool circulum guru, and one year novel proponent for kids Dan Schwabauer: www.danschwabauer.com or his blog http://oneyearnovel.com/wordpress/
  9. Journeys of love . . . inspired by Faith with writer Susan Holloway: www.susanhollaway.com
  10. A college student’s journey through the Middle East: http://meintheme.wordpress.com/
  11. Writer and book reviewer Caryn Caldwell: http://caryncaldwell.com/
  12. Historical writer Sandra Ardoin: http://sandraardoin.wordpress.com/
  13. Jalynn on homeschooling, books, and more: http://asimplelifereally.blogspot.com/
  14. Jackie’s back porch with Jackie Layton: http://jackiesbackporch.blogspot.com/
  15. Where Light Pierces the Darkness with Ralene Burke: http://www.raleneburke.com/

The Rules

If you are nominated, you’ve been awarded the Versatile Blogger award.

  •  Thank the person who gave you this award. That’s common courtesy.
  •  Include a link to their blog. That’s also common courtesy — if you can figure out how to do it.
  •  Next, select 15 blogs/bloggers that you’ve recently discovered or follow regularly. ( I would add, pick blogs or bloggers that are excellent!)
  •  Nominate those 15 bloggers for the Versatile Blogger Award — you might include a link to the VBA site.
  • Finally, tell the person who nominated you 7 things about yourself.

Seven Things About Me

  1. I love purple, puppies, and dolphins. No surprise to anyone who knows me. :)
  2. The only foreign countries I’ve been to are Venezuela, Romania, and Mexico. All missions trips.
  3. In college I won Best Supporting Actress at the SPAM Awards. (Student Produced Amateur Movies.) Don’t worry, I’m pretty sure I LOST that DVD of me lip-syncing to Etta James and Alicia Keyes.
  4. My favorite sport is baseball, because I actually know what’s going on. Thanks Dad!
  5. I had a friend in high school who thought I was the spitting image of the Star Wars diva Princess Leia, played by Carrie Fisher. Everyone else, including me, thought my friend was crazy.
  6. On my officle wall is a smiley face pic, a shiny pink star, and a dry erase board sponsored by The Office that I write funny sayings on. It’s got a picture of the original gang and a slogan, “Petty behavior. Zero productivity. All in a day’s work.”
  7. I just got a Kindle last week. What took me so long to join the e-reading gang? I’m THAT cheap. :)

My Novel: Would You Rather Go to College or Boarding School?

Neither, right? Actually, I had to ask my character that question. My current WIP (work in progress) was about a teen’s first year in college. I thought it would fit into the YA market because my character is 18. But when I pitched at the 2011 ACFW conference it didn’t fly. Why? Because teens don’t want to read about college life. And college students don’t have time to read fiction. At least that’s what one agent and one editor said.

What One Editor Suggested

When an editor from Thomas Nelson suggested I switch my setting from college to a boarding school, I cringed. It would make my story more teenage-friendly. But who would rather read about boarding school than college? College seems like more fun. In my mind I associate boarding school with a harsh regime, like a reform school. Who knows. Maybe I could make my boarding school as cool as Hogwart’s.

So I took a step back and did some research. There actually are Christian boarding schools in New York. Only a few, but they cater to hundreds of students. It’s a different twist on the ordinary high school drama. But is it interesting enough to relate to?

Will an Agent Get It?

The agent I spoke with at the ACFW conference agreed with the editor. I was devastated. But she said one thing that stuck with me, “Your writing is strong.” And she handed me her card. I was so disappointed by the news that I needed to change my novel’s setting. I only remembered the bad part for a month or two afterward.

As the Genesis contest approached, I suddenly remembered the agent’s praise. And her card. So I updated my story to the boarding school version and sent it off to Genesis to test out the new version. When it semi-finaled (yay!) I sent an updated query to the agent. Last week she sent me another rejection letter. This time with pointed advice. She had a lot of contemporary YA novels on her plate, and my story didn’t wow her. Back to the drawing board.  I’m still looking for the right agent, one who will get it.

A New Market

In the market where paranormal teen romance is a section in Barnes & Noble bookstores, my contemporary YA romantic comedy needs some extra punch. I’m not quite willing to add a paranormal punch. That wouldn’t be true to my story.

But I could change parts of my story. Maybe a prep school in New York City would be a better setting. Or my heroine could be a country girl who has to adjust to the big city. Time to spice it up. :)

Brainstorm With Me

Q4U: Would you rather read about a character in college, boarding school, or prep school? What other plot, character, or setting developments do you think might spice up a ho-hum YA romantic comedy about a girl running away from a heartbreak only to have to face it again? Don’t worry, there’s no bad ideas here.

Writing Clean for Today’s Teen

Teen readers are some of the most avid readers in the market. They deserve well-thought out novels that entertain and inspire. Yet, every time I pick up a YA novel at the bookstore there’s some kind of cuss word, explicit reference, or drug reference in the first five chapters. Sure, teens deal with heavy stuff every day at public high schools. But that doesn’t mean authors need to promote sex, drugs, and rock and roll. (Just kidding on that last one. :) )

Why Teens Need Better Options

Ok, before you get Footloose on me and organize a dancing protest, consider this. Teen reading is a great time to show kids making good choices. Those high school years are not only a teaching time academically, but relationally as well.  That’s why it’s important to portray characters who eventually make good choices, even if they mess it up at first. They still need to get it right in the end.

Teens want to read books they can relate to. But what makes a book transcendent? A book that rises above the standards, shows real characters fighting tough choices, and becoming better people in the process.  Don’t give the character exactly what they want. Watch how they deal with it. That’s real life. Adulthood. Aren’t teen years preparation for adulthood?

Readers want to grow with the character. It’s part of a good story. Especially to teenagers. They’re in the middle of a hyped-up time of change and they are open to learning new things. So give ‘em what they need, not just what they want.

Why I Choose to Write Clean

I read clean fiction. The Christian market is a great place to find clean reads, but I’ll consider books that meet the clean standard. I prefer positive, redemptive books that show a glimpse of a new reality or shed a new light on something.

It’s what I strive to write. Even in the land of the unpubbed, I picture my reader when I write. In my mind, my reader is a teen girl who is tired of the same old click-lit, mean girls club, vampire romance. They want something that’s funny, honest, and thought-provoking. And they don’t want the junk they deal with every day.  They want to rise above it to learn more about themselves and their world.

I loved those stories as a teen. Madeleine L’Engle is still my favorite author. I grew up reading her young adult books, A Wrinkle in Time and my all-time favorite A Ring of Endless Light. Those books stayed with me. They transcended the time period they were written in and spoke to me. One day I hope to publish novels that will speak to any reader, anywhere, just like that.

An Author’s Challenge

In YA fiction, it’s hard to stay on trend and still write a transcendent story. It takes extra research, plotting, and characterization. But it’s well worth the effort for a book that will speak to teens the way no other book can. And those books are usually appreciated by adults as well. I still love finding that great YA book I can rave about.

Everybody loves a good story, but a great one is remembered for a long time. Maybe that’s why Jesus taught in stories. Yeah, I like to set my standards high. Reach for the stars and all that. A good story is something we can all relate to. A great story is one that makes us see the world in a whole new light. Gotta love the power of story.

Here are some of my favorite YA authors:

Madeleine L’Engle Classics that read like modern-day stories.

Jenny B. Jones Hilarious and thoughtful books that inspire.

Robin Jones Gunn Godly stories the portray girls making good choices.

Stephanie Morrill A thoughtful, funny, and dramatic series of how a bad girl finds a good path.

Kristin Billerbeck Lighthearted, inspirational chick lit for teens and twenty-somethings.

Nicole O’Dell Great choose-your-own-ending series.

For more insights on this topic go to Holly Michael’s Writing Straight blog post with guest blogger YA author Jennifer Donohue What’s In a Story.

Q4U: What are your pet peeves about YA fiction? What are some clean reads you can recommend?

Time to Turn That Blog Into a Book? 5 Questions to Ask Yourself First

Lately I’ve been thinking about turning my blog into something publishable, a column, a book, or an ebook. There’s so many options to choose from. And lots of resources out there clamoring for attention. As I formulate my thoughts into some kind of plan, I wondered if other bloggers are in the same predicament. If so, here’s a look at my thought processes before the fateful decision is made:

1. Am I Ready? How much time it will take, and how much of my resources will be needed? Now is a great time for self-publishing, but is it right for me? I’ve always told myself to try the traditional publishing route first. Would a short self-pubbed book ruin my chances? I know it all depends on the publisher, but it’ll take some research to figure that out.

2. Do I Have Enough Content?  I wonder if it makes sense to pour time into one tiny ebook without any other products to back it up. I’d probably have to charge a few bucks to make it work it. I could follow the advice of Joel Friedlander(@JFBookman) in his CopyBlogger post today: 3 Simple Ways to Turn Your Website Archive into Profitable Books and eBooks.

3. What Would the Focus Be? I have a great Writer’s Tips series that I could easily make into an ebook. It would be great for beginning writers who aren’t sure where to start. But beyond that, I’m not sure what else I can offer. Then again, I could turn my new focus of faith and entertainment into a short ebook, too. Or I can start future blog series to turn into books, like Joel suggests.

4. How Can a Book Promote My Blog? A blog in itself reaches a certain niche of people. There’s an audience to reach, if I can learn to target them. Free content, otherwise known as content marketing, would promote my brand further, and in turn promote my blog. It’s all a new process to me. And I wonder if free content would be better than a cheap book. There are examples of how both can work like The Creative Penn.

5. Can I Make it Professional? This is a big deal to me. If I put something out there, I want it to be professional. That means fully edited and promoted. But those things cost money. And time, not only to find a great editor but to go through rounds of edits. Marketing and promotion are tools I’m interested in, but I wonder if I can do it all myself.

Will my reasons of promoting my blog and enhancing my platform outweigh my concerns of self-pubbing? The verdict is still out on that. Right now I’ve got a query out and a contest to worry about. But when those things are decided, this might be a next step to consider. Food for thought anyway. I’ll keep you posted.

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